I have so much. I extend the "Hold no grudges" rule to every one but myself. And my grudges-I hold them right around my waist!
I need to forgive myself for the one regret I have. This is my one regret. I wanted to have the same name as my kids-it is the natural thing. You get married, you have kids, everyone has the same name. I-we-didn't do it that way and I am sorry and regretful and sad..still.
I have amazing kids-no regrets or anything to forgive there. SO today-I let it go..gone..poof...history.